Looking for some advice on conversation and flirting from experienced couples.
We did an 8 day trip for our first time and split 3-5 going to Temptation first and then Desire. We are headed back to DRM for 6 nights in June. Had a great time, but we found at Desire, we struggled a bit to keep that conversation going without faltering into the forbidden topics of kids and work. When you catch up with friends back home you hit all the normal topics. But at Desire those are the last things you want to be talking or thinking about. So looking for ideas and advice for sustaining light, fun, and sexy.
And also, for those couples that are more soft swap, playful flirtatious, how do you go about letting other couples know where your limits are without it killing that organic feeling? At times we felt between groups of full lifestyle and no play couples. I think maybe we are a difficult couple? My wife likes to have fun, and she has made out with a few girls at the pool bar, and dance floor, done some light petting with guys, but she doesn’t want to feel any pressure or expectations. For a couple in our soft play range how do you answer that “are you in the lifestyle question?” And how does that response differ between couples you find attractive, and couples you do not?