livelearn131 wrote:Hi. Total Pearl newbies here. A bit disappointed to read in this thread that the playroom isn't really hopping. The one experience we had was at a club in Nashville, and we loved all the different rooms, and watching and being watched. Since we're not into playing with others at this time, we just loved the atmosphere of the rooms.... Since everyone says how much fun Pearl is, and how great a time it is, I'm wondering where the fun is then. Please someone reassure me we'll have a great time
Seriously, we want to make friends and be in a sexy environment and enjoy the excitement, but don't want to have to go back to others' rooms for that. So just trying to understand what we should be expecting or aiming for in terms of where to go and what to do.
I hope that made sense. Sorry for the nervous ramble.
Nothing to apologize for. Every first timer is a rambling nervous wreck...right up until you get there...and then you realize 98% of what you've read is dead on accurate. People really are that nice. The staff really is that friendly. And the place really is that magical
FYI...we were 1st times is June. We had so much fun we are heading back in December.
Regarding your play question...the playroom can be hit or miss. As I've read in other posts, it usually only takes one couple to get things started and others follow.
For us, the jacuzzi was where it was at. It gets hopping twice a day...once around 4-5p when the main pool bar closes...and again after the disco/nightly show slows down...11-12ish. I would say the night wave was a much better opportunity to see/experience "the fun". First off, most everyone is well "lubed" (in this case lube=booze) and very friendly. I would tell you to not have ANY hesitation about dropping your clothes and jumping in. Before you know it, you'll have a drink in hand and you'll be talking to some really cool people. Even if you stick to yourselves, a quick glimpse around will give you all the "show" you'll ever need...2-somes, 3-somes, 4-somes, body shots...hell, we even witnessed a pussy eating contest amongst 3 couples. All very steamy, all in good fun, and all very respectful...by that I mean no one will come up to you in any sort of "creepy" way (at least that was our experience).
My advice...go with a plan but not an expectation. Have a thousand discussions with each other. Have great sex thinking about all the possibilities. Then just show up and let the place unfold in front of you. This should be for the 2 of you first...everything else is a bonus.