My wife and I are planning a trip for January and Desire Pearl caught our eye.
One thing we question is that the reviews seem to be all over the map. I don't consider us fancy or foodies but we do like to stay in nice places, eat good meals, have good service, etc. Some reviews say DP is like this, some say it isn't.
We also want to use our next vacation to spend quality time together and she really wants to sit naked on the beach. Neither one of us are body shy and in decent shape for being 51.
I've read no means no but want to know what to expect as the liquor flows throughout the day. One review said DP is turning into Hedo, which is not what we want.
I've heard mention of the quiet side of the pool, I assume this is away from bar. We also aren't in the lifestyle but have had a few experiences and if anything does happen she will lead it. I like DP due to that possibility but also need her to be comfortable. I know this sounds a bit prudish.
Is DP the right place for us or would we be better off somewhere else?