Looking for an "in-between" resort for our 20th Anniversary.

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Re: Looking for an "in-between" resort for our 20th Annivers

Postby playatropical » Tue Jul 14, 2026 11:33 am

"Here’s my advice on the nudity thing :
Go to Pearl, the much higher % of nudity will make you more comfortable not less. Half of the men running about in cargo shorts, that’s going to stop you trying nudity, not encourage. Almost everyone being naked has the opposite effect, you start feeling like the odd one out and think - why not!"


So much truth to this . . . .
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Re: Looking for an "in-between" resort for our 20th Annivers

Postby desireaddict » Sun Jul 19, 2026 12:15 pm

Just saw your post as I'm not on here daily or even weekly.

Simple answer: YOU HAVE FOUND THE RIGHT PLACE FOR WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.
Desire is much more mild than you likely imagine.
Many guests are NOT into the Lifestyle. (Prob 50% or more are not.)

So, Just Do It!

Thank us all later with your trip report.
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Re: Looking for an "in-between" resort for our 20th Annivers

Postby ninaandfrank » Sat Jul 25, 2026 3:21 pm

Hi I was considering sending this privately but I guess others can benefit from it as well. I often hear folks who are nervous about being in a sexually charged environment with nudity. The image they get in their heads from reading posts on places like Facebook, TicToc and even here can be pretty nerve racking for a newbie. I get that. But it can also be very one sided. Honestly, I think some of the reviews paint a way too outlandish image, that may not always be correct. I am quite amused when I hear reviews that go something like ~Snip
We are a couple in our late ;30s who is physically fit and look fabulous. We met in our teens as high school sweethearts. We have never been with anyone else sexually other than each other. We were both virgins on our wedding night. We have never made love with the lights on. We are both quite religious and have booked so that we can be home in time for Sunday church services. My wife is very nervous about being around nude folks and will not be taking her top off this trip; but maybe on subsequent trips she will consider it. We spoke about everything on the flight down in great detail despite the fact that was a family with young kids in the next row. Check in was simple and I had a glass of champagne and my wife had water as her lips have never touched alcohol. Our room wasn’t ready so we left our suitcases at reception and sat near the pool to relax and get our bearings. Within a minute 5 of the most beautiful naked women surrounded me and yanked my shorts down. One was kissing me, two were taking turns sucking my cock, and the other two were jamming each of my hands in their dripping pussies. With expert timing they then each proceeded to bend over in front of me and I did each one doggie style. Afterwards each of their husbands thanked me for being the best thing that ever happened to their wives. This sparked something in my normally shy wife. She immediately ripped off her bathing suit and called every man in the pool area over to her. We ar both NASCAR fans and my wife is named Savanah. Suffice to say it was the Savanah 100. She repeated this performance each day until we left. When she ran out of male guests, she started the largest all-girl orgy I have ever seen. Not being satisfied she then started in our the staff and even one unsuspecting electrical contractor just passing by; all with a 19 inch dildo shoved up her ass. … We’re going back next week.
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OK, that is an extreme example but I have read reviews that read like that. To be perfectly honest it is far from the truth. People tend to remember the most extreme situations they encounter and focus on those experiences when telling about their adventures. Also once many years ago we were at another venue and were asked if we were interested in being ambassadors. That would include writing (nudge wink) “reviews”. No way , no how, we turned that down and never went back. I am not suggesting that any of that is driving some of these reviews but the possibility is always on my mind when I read any internet review of well, anything. A co-worker did tell me once that she did get a free major room upgrade at another resort in return for a quite biased and embellished review, if you can even call it that. The TLDR here is to not get scared off by anything anyone else may have experienced or claimed they have experienced. Your experience is going to be what you make of it and you need not worry about the rest of us.
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Re: Looking for an "in-between" resort for our 20th Annivers

Postby Newps » Sat Jul 25, 2026 3:30 pm

I assume every review is made up crap, that's simply the world we live in. I never leave a review either. I get emails all the time asking for one for various products and services, every one gets deleted. I'm sure there are honest reviews out there but there's no way to tell so they all get disregarded.
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Re: Looking for an "in-between" resort for our 20th Annivers

Postby werfun » Sat Jul 25, 2026 7:57 pm

Right on Newps. I often how many reviews are written by teengers.
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Re: Looking for an "in-between" resort for our 20th Annivers

Postby ninaandfrank » Sun Jul 26, 2026 5:33 pm

"I read it on the internet. It Must be ture!"

werfun wrote:Right on Newps. I often how many reviews are written by teengers.
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