We were there in March, and are returning July 10. Since there are no hard rules that apply to your question, yes...you could probably wear anything you described. Total nudity perhaps would not pass muster since that is not allowed at Aphrodisia even at lunch. That said, I think the better rule of thumb is that ladies can and do dress as provocatively as they please for dinner, but it should exhibit an element of class. My SO and I aim for her revealing as much as possible but leaving just a little to the imagination. (A long dress split from here to there with nothing under and a carelesssness in how it hangs at any moment, might serve as an example.)
But the nightclub is different. Display any and all you want, and much, much more as the night progresses. Leaving with only your stiletos on is just about right.