BTDT wrote:FWIW, clothing optional should never be considered or suggested as the clothed option is somehow a sad or second rate option. It is a perfectly appropriate option when it is one that is offered.
People have their reasons for reaming clothed or partially clothed. Those reasons deserve the same level of respect one should afford, and should hope for in return, in other areas of choice such as hair or bare, private play or public play, lifestyle friendly or committed to monogamy.
There's a difference between disappointment and whether or not you respect people's choices. Complaints that there are too many suits are valid feedback about the experience at the resort. I'd be PISSED if I went to Desire and it was all vanilla couples wearing suits the whole time. It wouldn't be their fault, but it sure would suck.