Hi everyone!
I've been a lurker on this forum and have been reading everything about the 2 desire resorts that I can. I'm very interested in visiting, but I got some specific concerns from my wife. Not having ever been to desire, I'm not able to confirm or refute what she's saying...I'm hope some of you can chime in!
The situation: we are both in our early 30s. We're both attractive (tall, thin, but not bodybuilders or anything). We are not swingers and don't want to be. We HAVE been to "Couples" resorts in Jamaica, so we've done the au natural thing, but in a much less sexual atmosphere. I'm very interested in Desire because I'd love to spend a week in a place with a really sexually charged atmosphere that revs up our engines all day long, then leads twosome great sex between the two of us!
The concerns:
First, she's concerned that she's going to be overly ogled, which makes her a little uncomfortable. At Couples we were among the youngest there, and I looked at the age poll on this forum (looks like ~45 is the average age). We don't care what other people look like, and don't mind hanging out with older people, but would a 32 y.o. woman get an "uncomfortable" amount of attention? Do we need to wait until we are older to go? We'd prefer to just blend in with everyone else.
Second, she's worried about what the people and place are like. To be honest, I've enjoyed pretty much everyone I've ever met naked. My wife is definitely NOT a stuck up kind of person, however, she has a (what I think is unfounded) fear that more sexual resorts like desire are "trashy", or that the people are gross, uncivilized, and pushy. To be fair, she hasn't read this forum like I have, because everyone I've seen on here seems really nice. I think this is just a prejudice that comes from the media. Furthermore, I told her that the price of a week at desire is high enough that I didn't think "trashy" people would be able to afford it. Can you guys tell me what the people are like? What sort of walks of life do people come from? Would we make friends?
I really appreciate any color you guys can give, since I think it would be an awesome trip. THANK YOU!!!
TL;DR - wife is worried about being youngest person at desire and being ogled, and that she won't like the people there.