by sandysobe » Mon May 04, 2015 1:26 pm
People can smell it on you too. Since we've gotten into the lifestyle we have been asked more than once in vanilla bars if we swing. Now we are less judgmental of other people while out for a fun night. We are more touchy feely in a fun, non committal, don't read into it kinda way. We also won't turn on each other if we are flirting with other people. We are more confident than ever that we are coming home to each other.
That all being said, to confirm what people have already said. Be sexy, be outgoing, be sexy. If other people swing that way, then they will not be able to resist the urge to want to join you. It also goes the other way, if people are being outwardly sexy, ask if you can join them. It's a very polite ecosystem.
Kasidie,SDC,SLS & Quiver as Sandysobe