Saving Beds DP

[Calguygal]

We are counting down the days until we arrive at DP (16 days!) On our last (first) visit we had the chance to have sex quite often on the beds by the jacuzzi. In the afternoon and at night. But a few times we were confined to the jacuzzi as people "saved" the beds four hours without using them. They had towels down and or a purse by the foot of the bed but spent most of their time hanging out in the tub. Soooo on this trip we plan on plopping down on a saved bed when the moment strikes us and who ever is saving it can use it after us. I don't want to have a naked fistfight and I can't imagine anyone getting crazy mad but with 88 rooms and only six beds, claiming one for the whole night by tossing your stuff on it seems rude and unfair. Any thoughts on the best way to handle bed " squatters" ?

[SJCrazy]

You have my full support... the beds are for playing, not storage! Some people might be a little ticked but I doubt anybody is going to get into a big dispute over it.

[eddieandjojo]

Agreed, we have done that, beds are for use, not to be reserved.

[goldfish1]

How do you guys feel about long massages on the beds? I like to give my wife long massages. Like an hour. Then have sex. Is that abusing the beds?

[eddieandjojo]

One of my favorite things to do that leads to hot sex! Not sure it's gone an hour, either I attack or she does as the build up gets very intense....LOL

I'd say use your judgement.....

[Calguygal]

I wouldn't care so long as you are on it and using it. But it's 10:30 and there sits towels and a hat and we keep looking for who will ever use the bed. Glad to see folks here are on the same page.

[TandD]

How do you guys feel about long massages on the beds? I like to give my wife long massages. Like an hour. Then have sex. Is that abusing the beds?

In my opinion, that's pushing it but obviously it's a gray area. Assuming all the beds are occupied, you can assume that someone is waiting to use the bed when somebody is done. So, while you have every right to enjoy yourselves and you don't want to feel rushed, I think one has *some* sort of obligation to let others have their fun too. An hour long massage and *then* having sex, seems kinda long to me.

Given that the beds around the jacuzzi are the only official place you can have sex outdoors, it seems like that should be their main purpose when the demand is high. I think the draw of the beds is for people to get their rocks off having sex in public. Giving a massage in public just isn't quite the same thing for me and I think that should be at a lower priority. I know you could argue that the massage is like foreplay but I would think you could reasonably be expected to cut that part short when others are waiting.

Just my opinion.

[22truckie]

Guess it depends on the crowd. When we were there in November nobody saved a bed. They were used for fun and then left open for the next couple. If it is a problem, I would say get on it and have a little warm up fun. If Someone has a problem then they can say something before you get " too deep". Given how everyone has seam to be there I would be amazed if anyone would have a problem. Probably people who just do not understand??

[ny2couple]

We snuck onto a "saved" bed after non-use of it for an extended period of time. The other couple finally showed up later and didn't seem to mind. Most people seem to understand that beds are for using rather than storage but a general reminder isn't the worst thing in the world.

[Simplyus]

How do you guys feel about long massages on the beds? I like to give my wife long massages. Like an hour. Then have sex. Is that abusing the beds?

Been to Desire over 20 times and would say, Nope, not abusing it. However, it is making the rest of us guys look bad. LOL

[Beach girl]

Just make sure you pick up your towels when you finish with the bed. It's common courtesy and it signals the bed is available. Just my pet peeve to think someone should pick up behind you.

[Le Couteau Cache']

Beds are to be used, not saved. If you're not doing the wyld thang on the bed, please don't be putting your belongings on it.

[fwtxfuncouple]

There are always those who take three hour naps on those beds. Seriously? All the beds will be taken and being used and you have that one guy (or gal) who drank too much and instead of going to his room will just pile up and go to sleep right there. That is a little irritating. Come on dude, go to your room so the rest of us can have some fun!!!