Rocky&Debby wrote:We're not an LS couple, but we love the au-naturale resorts. We take a "just us vacation" once a year, and we went to Couples Tower Island for our 20th anniversary We didn't shed our cloths until we had only 2 days left of our vacation. The only thing we could talk about on the way home was, " We wish we didn't wait so long." Since then, we always look for au-naturale resorts and can't wait to have the sun kiss our ass cheeks. We are really looking forward to our first trip to Desire. We won't partake in the LS, but we do plan to watch and be watched. My wife is also excited about the theme nights and dressing in her sexiest dresses for dinner and the disco. Hopefully we will meet a lot of nice, friendly, fun couples with whom we can share our time at Desire. Anyone up for a grown-up game of truth or dare?
razor6416 wrote:We are not a LS couple either but have had a great time on our 3 trips to DRM and DP. We've met some really fun couples and enjoyed the atmosphere, food, entertainment, etc. We've never felt pressured to engage in LS activities. My comment on the "No Thanks" bracelets is to rethink that approach. Our experience, and I believe most others, is your experience with the overserved LS couple is in the vast minority and the bracelet may be mistaken as a message that you don't want to talk, be friendly, etc. I know you're not asking for advice but I would take the bracelets along, not wear them at first and if you experience a similar unpleasant episode you can put them on.
Just a thought
mato325 wrote:We are not in the LS either. We went to Pearl for the 1st time in July and had the time of our lives. We found that everyone was very respectful of our limits which made us comfortable to explore with them how far we wanted to go in our interactions. We had a great time just putting our toes in the water so to speak. We can't wait to be back again.
22truckie wrote:Chicagoin69. We made our first ever trip to DP( and first ever clothing optional) last November ( read our trip report November trip report and a new shoulder). We read about the lifestyle couples being down there. We are not LS but did not let that stop us from having fun. You are going down there for a reason so focus on that. We talked to numerous people who were in the lifestyle and had a blast with them. Great conversations even some about the LS. They never once made us feel pressured, uncomfortable. We talked a lot about what was acceptable and what was not before going down there ( PDA, PDS, touching other people, being touched,,,). I also found out that it is important to touch base often while down there as feelings can change one way or the other. We actually got approached by another attractive couple. It was not awkward, done very respectfully and we took it as a compliment. My wife said if we were into that that they would have been a fun couple. We had an absolute blast and am going back in a few weeks, first week in May. BTW, spent most of my life growing up in Springfield and played ball for SIU. And for the couple who had one bad experience with a drunk LS couple. Very sorry about that. There is always a few bad apples anywhere you go anymore, even in paradise. Please do not let them jade you into wearing " No Thanks" bracelets. Again everyone we met in the LS were very respectful. Glad you are going back to DP. Go there completely naked except for their bracelet
chicagoan69 wrote:Headed to DP in May as first-timers...brand new to all "this" and instincts are that LS is NOT our thing. But we are interested in the "sexually charged" nature of the place. Just wondering what others not in the LS are contemplating and thinking about as they head to Desire. We are nervous and excited. I've ordered some risque outfits, and ChiWolve is even going to participate in the theme nights. I am theoretically interested in the voyeur aspects, etc...but looking for others' thoughts!
Chicagoan69 and ChiWolve
Desire2424 wrote:We're not a LS couple either and next month will be our first trip to DP. We were searching for an upscale, sexy CO resort with a nice nude beach and some nightlife. The info on this forum made me feel confident enough to book DP without fear of being in an uncomfortable environment. We're both busy professionals and vacation time is too precious to make a mistake, especially when it's MY idea. We've done the Au Natural beach thing at Couples Negril with intentions of visiting Hedo but from what I've read on various forums and what we heard from another couple at CN, Hedo was not for us. The single guys, locals and overall craziness that we heard and read about, confirmed that we needed to find a better choice. CN was nice but too mellow and really dead at night. I'm hoping that my research about DP is accurate and we're hoping for a very sexy time together in a very sexy place with cool, sexy people. From everything I've read here at this forum, I'm thinking that LS couples and non LS couples can all find their own type of sexy time at DP. My ass is TOTALLY on the line as this is how I described it to my wife ......we're both very excited.
RusLon wrote:Desire2424 wrote:We're not a LS couple either and next month will be our first trip to DP. We were searching for an upscale, sexy CO resort with a nice nude beach and some nightlife. The info on this forum made me feel confident enough to book DP without fear of being in an uncomfortable environment. We're both busy professionals and vacation time is too precious to make a mistake, especially when it's MY idea. We've done the Au Natural beach thing at Couples Negril with intentions of visiting Hedo but from what I've read on various forums and what we heard from another couple at CN, Hedo was not for us. The single guys, locals and overall craziness that we heard and read about, confirmed that we needed to find a better choice. CN was nice but too mellow and really dead at night. I'm hoping that my research about DP is accurate and we're hoping for a very sexy time together in a very sexy place with cool, sexy people. From everything I've read here at this forum, I'm thinking that LS couples and non LS couples can all find their own type of sexy time at DP. My ass is TOTALLY on the line as this is how I described it to my wife ......we're both very excited.
Just curious, how did it go, do you still have your ass? )))
Desire2424 wrote:RusLon wrote:Desire2424 wrote:We're not a LS couple either and next month will be our first trip to DP. We were searching for an upscale, sexy CO resort with a nice nude beach and some nightlife. The info on this forum made me feel confident enough to book DP without fear of being in an uncomfortable environment. We're both busy professionals and vacation time is too precious to make a mistake, especially when it's MY idea. We've done the Au Natural beach thing at Couples Negril with intentions of visiting Hedo but from what I've read on various forums and what we heard from another couple at CN, Hedo was not for us. The single guys, locals and overall craziness that we heard and read about, confirmed that we needed to find a better choice. CN was nice but too mellow and really dead at night. I'm hoping that my research about DP is accurate and we're hoping for a very sexy time together in a very sexy place with cool, sexy people. From everything I've read here at this forum, I'm thinking that LS couples and non LS couples can all find their own type of sexy time at DP. My ass is TOTALLY on the line as this is how I described it to my wife ......we're both very excited.
Just curious, how did it go, do you still have your ass? )))
Haha....'ASS' is still in tact! Best trip ever!! We can't wait to go back!! Totally erotic, upscale environment with respectful, sexy and friendly people. We even joined a lifestyle website upon our return and are planning our first trip to a local club this weekend. We're not planning to swap but we really enjoy hanging out with loving, sensual people and enjoy a little exhibitionism.
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