We just returned from the most wonderful vacation we have ever taken. As the title states, we are not lifestyles and this trip didn't change this. We met great friends through different groups prior to the trip, many in the lifestyle and variations in between. For us, it was never a big deal for us or them. We were always comfortable around each other in the pool, hot tub, disco, etc. for me and my wife, it was our first clothing optional and open sex environment. We were naked within one minute of Victor providing us with great chairs. That first night, we made our way to the evening hot tub and had amazing sex on the jacuzzi beds. This became a daily ritual. We would play with each other in the pool and on the beds during on the mild pool side some days. This is the most sensual, erotic environment that you can visit. We found Pearl to be laid back. We were approached daily multiple times and we let folks know we weren't in the lifestyle and it never stopped us from having great conversations. They would ask why we weren't in the lifestyle and we could ask what drives them and also talk about family, experiences, etc. we were very nervous going into this vacation and probably read and planned too much. We went in with boundaries and should have taken it little more day to day although the boundaries weren't up for debate. The wife and I did pussy body shots on the jacuzzi bar several times and I licked chocolate off of her on several occasions. One night, she did let a female friend lick some whipped cream and chocolate from her boobs but that was as far as we went other than a few friendly kisses and boob rubs in the hot tub or pool. If you are not sure this is for you, if ask yourself if you are comfortable with public nudity, sexuality and public sex. If you can get comfortable with those and many other sexual erotic things, then this place is for you. Every day is different at Pearl.
One evening we were the only couple at the hot tub bar and the next night there blow jobs galore and girl on girl strap on action. It definitely does vary day to day as new guests arrive. The schedule of Pearl can be a little overwhelming. You do not have to participate in everything. We are mid 40s and found it can wear you down over six days. 4-5 hours of sleep and all day action and alcohol take its toll. Be sure to mix in water and take a nap if you can. Watch out for foods that could be undercooked like hamburgers. Be careful, and you should be fine. I had some stomach issues but nothing that kept me from having a fantastic time. The food was very good. Order all that you want as portions are small at dinner at both restaurants.
If you are into open sex, the playroom is fun after the disco. Some night we were the only couple in there and others there were multiple couples.
We did the erotic massage. We enjoyed it. I'll let you make your own judgement on that one but it does includes full genital touching and ends very happy.
We want to thank victor, graciliano, Mariano, Marco, Bella, Emily, Kia, Ruben, Emilio, Jesus and Antonio for the best service we have ever had. We could name others but you guys made it special and everyone made it amazing. The daily activities were fun to watch or participate in and the nightly shows and performers were great.
You can make this trip whatever you want it to be. Make sure you are both on the same page going in and talk daily and nightly for any changes. You can make this the most sexually charged vanilla trip that you can take as a couple and meet great open minded non judgmental people.