We have now been back a few weeks. Now with the trip over and the holidays behinds us I finally have time to pay everyone back for their trip reports by providing one of my own.
We were at DRM Dec 16 thru the 21. It was our first trip to the resort. Our only previous experience to anything close to DRM had been at Temptations..which we liked very much. We are not in the lifestyle but have friends who are and like being around open minded fun people. Desire was definitely a step up for us.. sexually. The trip marked a lot of firsts for us both. In short we had a riot. Neither of us are "models" but felt very comfortable being naked around other people. This was a first for us both. I loved seeing my wife topless all week long. It was a very erotic experience to be naked around other people all the time. Sounds stupid..but true.
Comparing Desire to Temptations all I can say is that everything was a level or two better. Keep in mind that we loved Temptations but this resort was nicer, the food better, the atmosphere sexier, the staff more professional and friendly and the rooms better.
Everyone really gets into the theme nights and the disco is a lot of fun. Without me knowing, my wife bought an outfit for each night and looked sexier than hell. It was very cool!!
Then theres the Jacuzzi. We ventured up to the Jacuzzi late our first night there. All I can say is yes..everything you have heard and read is true. It was an erotic overload...and we loved it. One funny thing.. we did the jacuzzi two late nights and enjoyed them both (just watching.. we never played with others dang it lol). Then one afternoon another couple suggested we go up there before dinner in the late afternoon... so we did. HOLY ****!!! There was triple the amount of people and triple the amount of stuff going on! Live and learn. Lol
The staff at DRM is out of this world. They honestly feel like family by the time you leave. I would feel comfortable with any of them in my home. Amazing people. And...for the most part, the people we met at the resort are also great. We only had one bad experience that left a bad taste. But it was really no big deal and is not worth mentioning here.
In closing, if you are debating your first trip to DRM.. and (like us) are a little nervous... go ahead and do it!! You won't regret it. You can do as little or as much as you want. And, as long as your constantly communicate with your partner, you will have a GREAT trip!! We have been married over 30 years and I can honestly say that we had some of the best sex of our marriage and I learned some very cool things about my lovely wife and her sexual desires. One of them is that she wants to go back!
D & M