We were at desire from Apr 1st-5th. It was our first time in a CO place. we are monogamous, not in the swinger lifestyle, but do have exhibitionist and voyeuristic inclinations. And here are my observations:
There were a diverse group of people in terms of age, body shapes, where they are from etc. People with body issues - this is really the coolest place - cos there is no judgement at all. I am of Indian descent and my boyfriend is a very colorfully tattooed white guy and we felt very welcome and there was no weirdness. Making a mention of this because someone posted a question on this forum about Indians being at the resort. There was another couple or 2 of Indian descent. And everyone seemed to be getting along just fine. A very accepting and inclusive environment for sure. The guests there all seemed so cool and liberated. They all seemed to be having a great time and it certainly made for a positive vibe for all. Such a decent crowd - the combination of all that nakedness, unlimited drinking - we did not encounter a single messy situation.
The beach was one of the best things about this place - the beds are so incredibly close to the water. We did not expect that and its just wonderful. And the seaweed was cleaned regularly and kept mostly clear.
The staff were wonderful beyond words. We wish we remembered everyone's names so we could list them out at the survey at check out. They were all just extremely service minded and always had a smile on their faces. We tipped cos we wanted to show how much we appreciated how great they are.
We rented a car and went to Tulum and Coba one day. My boyfriend scuba dove the Cenotes on another day. But 5 days were just not enough. We didn't check out the Spa, Sauna or the Gym. The body painter was doing an awesome job, we didn't try it out personally though. Next time, we want to stay for 7-10 days to get the best experience.
We were not super impressed with the playmakers and the shows and the games - felt like they could definitely do better on those. We were really looking forward to the foam party, but it was moved from Saturday to Friday and we missed it. All in all, they were good, but not spectacular. I heard from an employee that the Pearl entertainment group is much better. It may also be that we would have enjoyed those shows more if we were with friends or into the lifestyle. The Sin room was mostly quiet - may be went at the wrong time. We were disappointed they didn't have the swing as shown in the pics or any other contraptions except beds. Food and drinks were good. Not too exceptional. Best thing is that we didn't get any stomach issues.
It took a day for me to get used to being surrounded by naked people since this is our first time. But by day 2, it was nothing remarkable - just another butt, boob, or penis. The great thing was that nobody gawked or made any unwelcome gestures or comments. There were some construction guys that gawked, but oh well. We did see a lot of couples and groups of people going at it at the Jacuzzi area - just a unique experience to see people engage in what is so natural out in public (well, not really public - but not behind closed doors). Its a freedom to be raw and natural that I truly enjoyed. I did however keep wondering how other people don't seem to be too concerned about the potential of STDs with strangers. May be they are using protection.. I don't know.
The Desire experience is truly what you make of it... you can be private if you want, you can mingle if you want. No unpleasantness. No pressure. You can dress up for theme nights if you want or just hang out in casual clothes and people watch. Totally up to you. We chose to be private at times - lying on the beach beds napping when most people were at the pool, listening to the waves and making love under the stars at the Jacuzzi (while everyone else was at the night event/club) and at other times, we chose to be a little out there (got tied up by my BF at the Jacuzzi on BDSM night - one of my favorite memories from the trip).. we also attended the Yoni and Lingam workshop - which is basically organized massage and sex in a class - which was fun too
This is just my rant and my thoughts based on my experiences. Not meant to offend or put down anyone.
We were already looking for deals and dates for our next trip while we were flying back home. Needless to say, it was a romantic, sensual, incredibly unique experience and nothing else will compare. The only way we are able to get over this depression is knowing that we are coming back soon for sure.