We are a vanilla couple who have never done a nude resort, lifestyle resort, etc. Our wildest trip was last May to Temptations. (My wife took her one-piece, but quickly went topless there). We had no interest in swinging before we went and remain strictly vanilla.
On the vanilla front, there was lots of anxiety before the trip from my wife from reading forum posts. She was very concerned about the lifestyle aspect of Desire, and feeling out of place as a result. I'm happy to report after our first trip that the experience was nothing but positive. The staff at Desire Pearl is amazing, the atmosphere is exactly what we were looking for, and the people were absolutely open and welcoming. There were some opportunities to stray from our vanilla status (some I didn't recognize. To the woman who said she wasn't trying to be fresh - unless I wanted her to be, I apologize for missing the very obvious hint.) My wife had an admirer (I can understand why) but nothing too pushy or weird. We were clear with each other about our boundaries going in so there were no problems with any of this. Neither of us ever felt pushed or uncomfortable.
As to our trip, we arrived late on Saturday - about 10:30 p.m. - and went to our room. Our room was near the jacuzzi and our introduction to Desire came very quickly. When we got to our room we went out on the balcony and the first sounds we heard were the very happy sounds of a woman on a bed at the jacuzzi! Of course, we decided to go check it out and ended up having sex in the jacuzzi the first night! That set the tone for our time with each other at this amazing place. Sex in the jacuzzi, sex on the jacuzzi bed, etc.
The rest of the week was equally amazing. We saw couples clearly enjoying the lifestyle with each other, quickly became comfortable being naked in front of a lot of people, enjoyed the daily activities (by the way, Kia has the most amazingly fit body I have ever seen). We drunkenly enjoyed pool zumba and pool basketball. Ingred provided awesome body art for both of us. Victor, Hector, etc. made our stay comfortable and relaxing. The food was really good. The jacuzzi experience can't be beat. The evening entertainment was off the charts. Most of all, the other guests created an open, inviting, safe, sexy atmosphere for all.
We decided before we left that, while we really enjoyed our stay at Temptations, Desire is the place for us. It let an old, vanilla married couple have an intensely intimate few days in a sexually open, welcoming environment. Can't wait for our next trip! Thanks to the staff and the guests for a great experience!