So I found Desire last week wile trying to make one of my wife's dreams come true. I have been reading over the forums for a few days now so I get the general response noobs get. We have never been to a clothing optional anything before. We have been on a vanilla cruise and a resort before. So we have a good idea of how resorts go. So a little about us we have never been exhibitionist but if either of us is more adventurous it was her when we were younger. She went to the Rocky Horror Picture Show and was part of the cast as Janet. That means she was in the front of the theater in nothing but a bra and slip. Now that was years and three kids ago so both of us are not in as good a shape as we were in our late teens/early twenty. I am feeling a lot more comfortable about that part after reading the posts here. Now she is feeling excited and anxious. probably 50/50 on those. I also am feeling both just I am better about hiding it. I was just wondering if anyone had some words of wisdom in regards to helping through the anxious parts.
Now in regards to when we are planning our trip. We usually do our no kids trips in Sep. I looked at the post about when people are going and it seems like Aug. and Sep. are the two lightest months. Is there any other month that would be better? Would a birthday month be a good idea? April (mine) or November (hers). Sep. is our anniversary month. We have been thinking of 4 days starting on the 20th or 21st. That would mean Fri-Sun are a guarantee. It is just should we go the extra day before or after the weekend. Also we have been talking about how far we are willing to go. We started thinking of nothing more than Voyeuristic intentions (for those who have been to the RHPS you see what I did there hehe) but as the conversation went on the line we drew started to get a little wibbly wobbly. Now we are thinking of playing it a little closer to the vest and seeing where the mood takes us when we are there (I have only ever been with my wife so curiosity is there but so is apprehension). Also what is a better way to book directly or through a travel site? A travel site I could book both the flight and room. I have seen things that say hotels are happier if you book directly (as they then don't have to pay the travel site) so if something goes wrong they more willing are able to help more. We probably wont book anything till the end of February so we have some time to read more posts and get every ones opinions.
I am going to have my wife read over this and put in her 2 cents before I post this so you can hear from both of us.
So she did not ave anything to add but she did correct my spelling and grammar.
Thanks for all the advice in advance.