Seveniron2012 wrote:We have been to DP 4 times and are going again soon. Although almost by happenstance we have met couples and played, how have others sorted out who plays and who doesn’t ? Our experience is there are usually groups that know each other that can be intimidating to talk to, other solo couples that may or may not, and nudists who clearly do not. Do you just ask another couple after you’ve been talking ? Like, ‘hey we like you guys, do you play ?’ Just curious what other couple have experienced
Breakthrough wrote:We go to Desire primarily to meet people and make friends. The folks that choose Desire for their hard-earned time off and money are inherently different, and we get along with the average “Desireite” in a totally different way than the average vanilla person. We get to know folks, then however that progresses, it does. We were 100% vanilla walking in to our first trip. On the first day we met an amazing couple and spent all day laughing and talking in the pool. By the time the late-night jacuzzi was a thing it was just perfectly natural for it to transition to something more... even though we’d never done anything like that before. That same scenario as played out for us over and over, sometimes with the other couple having been the vanilla ones.
All of that is to say that in our experience, it doesn’t really matter. If you meet and get to know a couple, it’ll just sorta go where it goes. If they’re hard-line “vanilla nudists” it just naturally won’t progress any further.
Now, if You’re just looking to hook up as much as possible (which we’re totally not judging AT ALL - everyone should enjoy Desire however is most rewarding to them), then this approach probably won’t work. If you’re after lots of good, hot, sex as much as possible, this slow-play will hamstring you. In that case then yeah, we’d say just straight up ask. No one at a place like Desire will be offended that you did
BubbaCal wrote:We wear a black ring on our right hand. We wish the wrist bands were colored as not all wear a black ring. We do ask nicely with no pressure at all.
2naked wrote:Simple: “Are you two in the lifestyle?”
It is a natural part of almost every first conversation we have with a couple we meet for the first time, sometimes asked by us, sometimes by them.
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