jd2121997 wrote:idk if its because of our age or just that shes not into the idea of doing things with other couples
Explorer79 wrote:My general advice would be to make sure that everything you do with regards to the loosening up involves her 100%, ie open and honest communication between the two of you. Hopefully this is just stating the obvious, it's hard to tell from your post, but this is an important thing, whatever you two do you have to be on the same page, both for your own sake and that of others.
Also, generally speaking it's probably the best plan to have no specific plan with regards to others. What I mean is that it's good to have a goal to have a great experience with your wife and any potential activities with your wife and others happen more organically vs having a goal of we are going to do xyz or whatever particular act. Things almost never work out like the plan, and remember there is a huge difference between fantasy and reality.
jd2121997 wrote:I can tell you right now shes completely not open to alot of things. She says she doesn’t wanna do things with other couples but my thing is that id really like it if we could at least talk to a couple and see what happens. I honestly feel like she may be more open to something once she sees it happening or once a certain situation breaks the ice. She is open to doing an erotic massage. We plan on going for a week so im hoping sometime in that week she can be more open. Im not really expecting anything major such as a full swap but if we could do some soft swap or even her and a lady friend getting a little hot with eachother that would be great. My goal really is just to try and open a new door to experiences and see where things can take us.
TwoBeachBums wrote:Communication is the key. Just make sure she knows that she is in charge and that you will not ask her to go where she is not comfortable.
I highly recommend the Art of Touch sessions as a way to allow her to explore I a safe setting.
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