We were attending an event in Cancun at a vanilla resort for the Memorial day weekend, so we decided to fly down a few days early and get in a few "desire" days. Here is the report. Im too tired/lazy to make this coherent. Its just a jumble of thoughts - some good and some bad.
We arrived nice and early on our first day. Our room wasn't quite ready so we had lunch. After that our room was ready and we were able to change, and head down to the pool and get naked ASAP! We met some nice people by the pool but unfortunately it started to rain on and off that day, and also for the next two days we were there. The resort did their best to occupy us with games and such, but it really was not what we had hoped weather-wise. Whenever there was a break in the weather people would head to the jacuzzi.
The vibe was relatively tame and quiet. Not sure if it was the weather or the group that was there....We saw only two couples total have sex by the jacuzzi the three days we were there (and we did our part...and were hoping others would too). We saw no one in the playroom either night. We went in on the second night and had a good time alone but other than a few people peaking there heads in, no one came in and got "busy"
We also noticed that the food was just not that great. It LOOKS great but it just didn't taste that great. Maybe when you don't even have a sunny day to look forward to, you put too much pressure on the food to be amazing to make up for the lack of sun. I don't know. But last visit we enjoyed the food and this time not so much.
We did the erotic massage too. My experience there is posted in the private playroom. But we gave it a C+/B- rating.
The beach was a seaweed disaster as usual.
The entertainment at night was good but not crazy good. The Dj played some better music this time and it wasn't overwhelmingly loud like last time
The drinks were good...No "funny" alcohol issues.
We felt safe. the current concerns about Safety in Cancun appear overblown, but use your judgement.
We met some very nice people. (if the couple from St Petersburg sees this: We mean you!!!)
Everyone was respectful. We've had a few creepy interactions over the years but this trip was the best from that standpoint.
We have been bouncing back and forth between desire and Hedonism for 5 years. There are pros and cons to both. But after this trip, we are looking forward to Hedo again. The single men are an issue for us there, but last time the food was on point, the rooms have been upgraded and are on par with Desires rooms and the sexy vibe/PDA/PDS scene is a little more consistently present than Desire's. So I think next trip will be back to Hedo.
Don't get me wrong, I would still go to Desire again, but we weren't overwhelmed with excitement after this trip. Im sure most of that was the darn weather which is not the resorts fault, obviously (and the staff did a great job under really bad conditions), but regardless of why we feel this way, we do. So Hedo it is for the next trip.
Peace, Out.