I wonder what the difference is, we'd love to see an active playroom, would be awesome but it just hasn't happened that way for us. With around 30 nights, it's a reasonable sample size but then again that's nothing compared to those with as many trips as we have nights.
How do you guys usually transition to the playroom? Is is straight from the disco in your theme wear or do you go to the jacuzzi first etc...?
Maybe it's a time thing? Our typical routine has us in the disco generally between 10:30 and 12:00 give or take 30 minutes. Every time we've gone back in there after 12 it has been empty. The fullest we've ever seen it is with 2 couples in there. Again though this could just be (bad) luck of the draw. I mean, if we are somehow missing the busy time I'd sure like to figure it out because we would certainly use it more.
I don't mind the "secretness" of the door, but I do think the walk through the disco in either pre or post play is an overall deterrent - even if only for logistical reasons. Granted some don't care - I personally have no shame, but my wife prefers more discretion, at least until we get in there She commented also that going straight from disco to playroom can be problematic afterwards as she doesn't want to put all that back on but she also doesn't want to make the passage across the dance floor with sex hair and a bundle of clothes and shoes in her hand either. In these regards, it's a totally different experience from any other playroom we've been in.
In the end what would be awesome is a setup that encourages more participation, not less - especially now since the upgrades are actually really nice. We will certainly try again in a few weeks.