by Explorer79 » Sun Mar 24, 2019 10:36 am
I generally wouldn't go up there solo without a group, and have never gone up without my wife, but I'm sure I've been up there while my wife is at the bar and I'm in the hot tub with friends or vice versa, or maybe one of us went the room for a bit to get something or whatever. As long as everyone behaves then who relay cares.
From the other angle I'm certainly not keeping tabs waiting to call out a red alert if there are not an even number of people in there. Maybe some do this? To me, if a man or a woman are being creepy then that's bad of course, and we've seen both sexes do it, but it is because of an observed act, not because of numbers.
So, you make a very good point. Think about it from the guy's perspective, you are up there bothering nobody yet you have people looking at you thinking you are a weirdo/creep or whatever, a horrible false accusation and not because you've done anything creepy at all but merely because of your existence. That just sucks.
I don't like this notion of ostracizing because someone has the potential be a creep, because news flash this is the case anywhere in the resort, and while our observed number of creeper instances is very low we've seen it more in the other areas actually.
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