Wow great post very reassuring,
We are Newbies going for our first time to anything like this. Like you we booked the trip for January 2019 before we realized it was international swingers month .
It is nice to hear so many first timers speak of the great time they had and the fact that most seem to be already planning their return trip. We are looking forward to our stay at Desire, hoping to expand our horizons, have some fun and meet new friends, (our youngest also just recently moved out leaving us to....well enjoy each other and try new things like this trip).