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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby Travelcouple89 » Wed Apr 22, 2015 7:09 am

Princessambergirl wrote:Wigs and slutty clothes should start arriving from the UPS man today, haha!


:L let the bedroom runway show begin... :wink:
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby honeycouple » Thu Apr 23, 2015 3:50 pm

Princessambergirl wrote:We r very excited to be going..the husband just said a bit ago. "I am sooo reafy to go on our vacation!" we went with the Life is to f**king short concept...!!!! Wigs and slutty clothes should start arriving from the UPS man today, haha!



You only live once. Try it once and see if you like it. The worst that happens is you don't go back. butt that's highly unlikely.You will not be judged, you will feel welcome, you will meet great people and you will have a good time if you just go with the flow.

When your too old to travel the worst thing that you can do is think about the missed opportunities!

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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby aBrit&aTexan » Thu Apr 23, 2015 4:15 pm

Princessambergirl wrote:Guy's....im so confused. Please help. We had reservations for Feb. I woosed out. I got scared that i was going to be judged about my curvy body (lg ass and cellulite) i cancelled everything! My hubbs was dissapointed. We r NOT swingers...i make out with chicks thats about it, lmao... He is really wanting to go and honestly me too... Please help. I am seriously thinking about booking AGAIN... for mid may.. To suprise him...for real this time. What do u guys think. Please help me in my decision...xoxo



We took our first trip in Feb and would have loved to meet you! We are headed there in late June for trip two.. we aren't swingers either and I can safely say i've never made out with a girl... but me and my curvy 40 year old body were very welcomed. Desire is about you and your partner... he will enjoy the scenery :wink: :lol: and it will take no time at all before you forget you're naked and start enjoying yourself! My advice, jump in with both feet, have a couple of drinks at the bar and be brave! You'll have a blast!

Looking forward to reading your trip report!!
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby UsAndYou » Fri May 15, 2015 10:32 pm

Travelcouple89 wrote:
UsAndYou wrote:You are right. Life is too f**king short. We just booked for early May! (first timers)


:L You won't be disappointed.


Was NOT disappointed! :D

Online tonight planning our next trip to Pearl!

One more thing: I don't think we would have made the first trip without the great (and generally accurate) info available on this forum. Thanks to all who offer encouragement to those of us that are (or "were" in our case) on the fence about visiting Pearl.
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby Travelcouple89 » Sat May 16, 2015 7:53 am

UsAndYou wrote: Was NOT disappointed! :D

Online tonight planning our next trip to Pearl!

One more thing: I don't think we would have made the first trip without the great (and generally accurate) info available on this forum. Thanks to all who offer encouragement to those of us that are (or "were" in our case) on the fence about visiting Pearl.


:L Congratulations on your first trip, planning your second trip, and many more to come! :wink:
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby mrstommer » Sun May 17, 2015 8:10 am

Agreed! Our first time, I was nervous as all get out! Every year we return, we add a little more adventure to our repertoire of memories. 21 days until we begin to experience Desire again! :D
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby two4funinpa » Sun May 17, 2015 6:03 pm

Go...even if you don't love it, it'll still be a better than average vacation. But trust me, you'll love it. Plus, if you don't go, you'll always regret it. Do it...do it...do it...and I can't say no one will notice or care how your built. Some of us like curvy women...
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby SolDesires » Mon May 18, 2015 11:27 am

Just book it! Great discount on Orbitz right now. We were there in October for our first visit and my ONLY regret...is that I waited until I was 45 to go! You will have a blast and feel more welcomed and comfortable than any place else you have EVER been! We arrive 3 weeks from today for our second visit! Can't wait to drop the clothes at the door!
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby Princessambergirl » Mon May 18, 2015 2:30 pm

mrstommer wrote:Agreed! Our first time, I was nervous as all get out! Every year we return, we add a little more adventure to our repertoire of memories. 21 days until we begin to experience Desire again! :D


25 days for us!!!!
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby smithvillecouple » Sat May 30, 2015 8:54 am

Princessambergirl wrote:Guy's....im so confused. Please help. We had reservations for Feb. I woosed out. I got scared that i was going to be judged about my curvy body (lg ass and cellulite) i cancelled everything! My hubbs was dissapointed. We r NOT swingers...i make out with chicks thats about it, lmao... He is really wanting to go and honestly me too... Please help. I am seriously thinking about booking AGAIN... for mid may.. To suprise him...for real this time. What do u guys think. Please help me in my decision...xoxo


Hi there. We're in the same boat as you. Desire RM some years ago was my idea, we didn't even really know what swinging was before booking that trip. It was eye opening but very fun. We're going to Desire Pearl in two weeks with another group so you can see we weren't scared away.

We're "swinger friendly" so to speak. We've discussed it, we like the openness of the lifestyle but we haven't interacted with another couple at all up until this point. My wife is also very self-conscious about her ass, thighs, cellulite, etc which comes with her being almost 40 and a mother of two. That's what's great about desire. Keep your clothes on if you wish, nobody cares. Just enjoy the environment with your partner, nobody cares. It's not packed with models and hardbodies as some ads may lead you to believe, it's just average folks. Sure, you may see some guy or gal and say "damn, maybe he should put some trunks on" but that comes with the territory and that persons confidence says something great about the environment, that he or she can still feel good about themselves even though they may not have a "perfect" body, afterall, who does?

Go, have no expectations, you will have a great time.

One word of advice, even if you two aren't swingers, book with a group. The experience going as a couple, without anyone else to sort of chat with or who you have things in common with (the group) really changes the experience. The resort and the atmosphere was much more fun when the group was there and when they left (we had two extra days after the group left) it just wasn't the same. If you're going to go, go big, go all out.
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby Princessambergirl » Mon Jun 01, 2015 9:55 am

mrstommer wrote:Agreed! Our first time, I was nervous as all get out! Every year we return, we add a little more adventure to our repertoire of memories. 21 days until we begin to experience Desire again! :D


We will be seeing u soon....I'll be the naked drunk girl!!!
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby Princessambergirl » Mon Jun 01, 2015 9:59 am

smithvillecouple wrote:
Princessambergirl wrote:Guy's....im so confused. Please help. We had reservations for Feb. I woosed out. I got scared that i was going to be judged about my curvy body (lg ass and cellulite) i cancelled everything! My hubbs was dissapointed. We r NOT swingers...i make out with chicks thats about it, lmao... He is really wanting to go and honestly me too... Please help. I am seriously thinking about booking AGAIN... for mid may.. To suprise him...for real this time. What do u guys think. Please help me in my decision...xoxo


Hi there. We're in the same boat as you. Desire RM some years ago was my idea, we didn't even really know what swinging was before booking that trip. It was eye opening but very fun. We're going to Desire Pearl in two weeks with another group so you can see we weren't scared away.

We're "swinger friendly" so to speak. We've discussed it, we like the openness of the lifestyle but we haven't interacted with another couple at all up until this point. My wife is also very self-conscious about her ass, thighs, cellulite, etc which comes with her being almost 40 and a mother of two. That's what's great about desire. Keep your clothes on if you wish, nobody cares. Just enjoy the environment with your partner, nobody cares. It's not packed with models and hardbodies as some ads may lead you to believe, it's just average folks. Sure, you may see some guy or gal and say "damn, maybe he should put some trunks on" but that comes with the territory and that persons confidence says something great about the environment, that he or she can still feel good about themselves even though they may not have a "perfect" body, afterall, who does?

Go, have no expectations, you will have a great time.

One word of advice, even if you two aren't swingers, book with a group. The experience going as a couple, without anyone else to sort of chat with or who you have things in common with (the group) really changes the experience. The resort and the atmosphere was much more fun when the group was there and when they left (we had two extra days after the group left) it just wasn't the same. If you're going to go, go big, go all out.

We arrive in 2 weeks!!!! No expectations, just go where the booze takes us!!! Lol! Hope we love it!!!
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby mrstommer » Tue Jun 02, 2015 6:56 pm

mrstommer wrote:
Agreed! Our first time, I was nervous as all get out! Every year we return, we add a little more adventure to our repertoire of memories. 21 days until we begin to experience Desire again! :D


We will be seeing u soon....I'll be the naked drunk girl!!!


I think that fits most of us......naked and drunk! LOL!

Only a matter of days, now!

Cheers!
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby RunningAway » Thu Jun 04, 2015 3:48 pm

Please post a Trip Report!! I'd love to hear how it went. Have the time of your life!
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Re: HERE WE GO AGAIN...UGH

Postby SolDesires » Thu Jun 04, 2015 7:21 pm

mrstommer wrote:
mrstommer wrote:
Agreed! Our first time, I was nervous as all get out! Every year we return, we add a little more adventure to our repertoire of memories. 21 days until we begin to experience Desire again! :D


We will be seeing u soon....I'll be the naked drunk girl!!!


I think that fits most of us......naked and drunk! LOL!

Only a matter of days, now!

Cheers!


Agreed! Can't wait! Hurry up June 8th! :L
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