We just returned from our 10th trip to DRM. While I agree that this forum topic can be useful, I also think that readers need to put things in perspective. Music choice is highly personal and isn't a valid complaint, IMHO...Just because I may not enjoy a particular type of music, doesn't mean that my lounge chair neighbor feels the same way. Management couldn't possibly respond to the individual requests for music choices. In my experience, the DJ's, whether around the pool or in the disco try to accommodate requests by guests. Do I get bored hearing the same Pitbull song, followed by the same Marc Anthony song in the disco? Sure....but I still dance to it, knowing that the next night it will be different. (and I will probably be missing Mr. Worldwide!) We don't sweat the small stuff, and so, our vast overall experience at Desire has been fantastic, each and every trip!
As for the timeshare pushiness, this is only if you agree to hear the pitch. Until this year, we have always simply said "No thanks" upon being asked at check in if we wanted to speak to the nice lady sitting next to the reception desk. Our refusal was met with a smile and a gracious "Have a wonderful day". Of course, if you choose to meet with the reps, they are salespeople and will be trying hard to sell you.
There are objective complaints that are universally agreed upon and these are the things that mgmt needs to respond to and address if they want to keep and obtain loyal customers. Maintenance of the roofs (leaky thatch), wood supports (our banister was severely rotted and actually fell off during our recent stay, and the group of three beach beds to the left of the bar almost collapsed as the top beams split while our friends were on them). We see maintenance being done all the time and I am sure they will get to all of these repairs in time, it just was very apparent that some fairly major disintegration had occurred in the year since our last visit. Overall, we feel the resort is being maintained wonderfully. The food is still excellent, the beach is clean and during our stay, the pool was repaired (they said there was a leak) and by the looks of it, resurfaced.
If you have a complaint, you can almost always get a hold of someone in management while you are there. We have always found them to be open to discussing any issues. Whether or not they are able or willing to change what you are complaining about comes down to budget and reality.