Men -Theme Nights?

[Creativfun]

The last time we visited Desire, we both dressed up for most of the themes. The very first night, we thought the theme was Wild and Wicked. I (John) wore a black silk t-shirt (muscle t-shirt), black chaps, black thong, and my Harley boots. Karen wore black lingerie with a black garter belt, black stockings, black bra and black high heeled shoes. We thought since it was Wild and Wicked one thing we could do to tie us together was for Karen to wear a collar with a lesh hooked to it The beads on the collar matched the beads on her bra. We threw back our liquid courage (we always grabbed a drink right before we changed) and off we went. She was looking sexy as hell!! We had to walk through a row of chairs that were facing each other. It was like walking through a gauntlet. Several couples sitting there, and not one of them were dressed for the theme. I kept talking out the side of my mouth to Karen "no one is dressed for the theme" she kept talking out the of her mouth to me saying "oh Shit!!", "oh Shit!!". We finally made it pass that group and was walking towards the bar. It's the bar right outside of the disco. It was like everyone turned and looked at us at the same time. I don't know if they were looking at my chaps or they were looking at Karen's lingerie. I think it was because I had Karen on a lesh. Once we were at the bar, we both said to each other "I need a drink" almost at the same time. Luckily someone heard us and let us go ahead of them.
They must of seen the horror on our face. Luckily some more couples showed up and dressed for the theme. To this day Karen and I still laugh at that night. And just think, we were celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Not only that, we hadn't even been there 12 hours. Acouple of day's later, we were in the pool. We stated talking with another couple, and they mention if we had seen the couple with the lesh. We started laughing and told them, yes. Make your trip memorable.

[Creativfun]

The last time we visited Desire, we both dressed up for most of the themes. The very first night, we thought the theme was Wild and Wicked. I (John) wore a black silk t-shirt (muscle t-shirt), black chaps, black thong, and my Harley boots. Karen wore black lingerie with a black garter belt, black stockings, black bra and black high heeled shoes. We thought since it was Wild and Wicked one thing we could do to tie us together was for Karen to wear a collar with a lesh hooked to it The beads on the collar matched the beads on her bra. We threw back our liquid courage (we always grabbed a drink right before we changed) and off we went. She was looking sexy as hell!! We had to walk through a row of chairs that were facing each other. It was like walking through a gauntlet. Several couples sitting there, and not one of them were dressed for the theme. I kept talking out the side of my mouth to Karen "no one is dressed for the theme" she kept talking out the of her mouth to me saying "oh Shit!!", "oh Shit!!". We finally made it pass that group and was walking towards the bar. It's the bar right outside of the disco. It was like everyone turned and looked at us at the same time. I don't know if they were looking at my chaps or they were looking at Karen's lingerie. I think it was because I had Karen on a lesh. Once we were at the bar, we both said to each other "I need a drink" almost at the same time. Luckily someone heard us and let us go ahead of them.
They must of seen the horror on our face. Luckily some more couples showed up and dressed for the theme. To this day Karen and I still laugh at that night. And just think, we were celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Not only that, we hadn't even been there 12 hours. Acouple of day's later, we were in the pool. We stated talking with another couple, and they mention if we had seen the couple with the lesh. We started laughing and told them, yes. Make your trip memorable.

[Mystra]

While we were there I dressed up for most of the nights - for the lingerie night I had black/orange boxer briefs and a black t-shirt; for costume night I had a kilt; for the desire university I did blue jeans, white t-shirt and a "leather" vest; for neon I did something similar to lingerie night except neon blue t-shirt and matching boxer briefs...

It was hit-or-miss a bit, but a fair amount of people dressed up, I'd say ... "Whitesands" were always wearing something scandalous And a bunch of other people that we met too . . . but like most things Desire, it really depends on the crew that's there when you are. I can tell you that my wife LOVED picking out things for me to wear for the theme nights...

D & K

[rsm]

I'll chime in that as a guy, I don't like the dressup stuff. But I do it because my wife likes to be accompanied by someone in the element. Also, the last time we were there, there was a couple in which the guy when way overboard each night, in my opinion, but the women all loved it. It gave me the courage to participate in the male strip competition the next night. Ten to twenty years older than my competitors, I still got a lot of kudos from the women around the disco. Maybe the pity vote. but still cool.

For Playboy night, try just a pipe and silk shorts with slippers.

[WhiteSands]

While we were there ... "Whitesands" were always wearing something scandalous

D & K

We'll take that as a compliment!
Yes, here's to more men folk participating......

[Mystra]

While we were there ... "Whitesands" were always wearing something scandalous

D & K

We'll take that as a compliment!
Yes, here's to more men folk participating......

Of COURSE it was a compliment!

In past years we didn't do as much for me, but she really got into it, and when she's into things it's better for everyone!

[WhiteSands]

[NorCpl80]

I'll chime in that as a guy, I don't like the dressup stuff. But I do it because my wife likes to be accompanied by someone in the element. Also, the last time we were there, there was a couple in which the guy when way overboard each night, in my opinion, but the women all loved it. It gave me the courage to participate in the male strip competition the next night. Ten to twenty years older than my competitors, I still got a lot of kudos from the women around the disco. Maybe the pity vote. but still cool.

For Playboy night, try just a pipe and silk shorts with slippers.

Hi rsm,

Newbies going in February here - May we Ask what the "overbord" guy Wore?

Currious regards

NorCpl80

[rsm]

The "overboard" label was not meant disparagingly. The one outfit I most remember was an oversized Elvis wig, lace shirt, skintight leather pants, and platform sequined shoes.

[ironman1231]

I'm kind of looking forward to being a little ridiculous.

A red mesh thong and matching shirt for my "devil red" costume - my wife loves it! And that's all that matters to me anyway.

[EmptyNesters]

As someone who frequents Hedo more than Desire, we usually tell newbie guys to check their ego at the door and dress as wild as possible for theme nights. I have worn my share of over the top "costumes" and people remember you more and give you credit rather than making you feel awkward. This from a guy that wore a lime green tutu along, with a friend who is a federal agent, for a glow night party. You may never see these people again!

[CoupleInMD]

Mrs. CoupleInMD and I have both been enjoying getting some items for the theme nights at DRM. As the empty nesters above will soon be able to witness, I am ready with small-but-appropriate theme night wear. I will have to get my nerve up to wear some of this stuff, but what the hell- we will be on vacation!

CoupleInMD

[miranda2]

I don't think anyone can dress or go 'overboard'.

The beauty of Desire and the theme nights, as well as the folks who are there, is that we are (should be) non judgmental and it's a place where we can live out some of our fantasies. If someone wants to brings suitcases full of costume attire, so be it and let's enjoy it. If someone doesn't want to dress up in the theme, that's great too. We enjoy those folks who do dress 'over the top' and appreciate the effort they put in to it.

[SeanandTina]

I am glad to hear about the men taking part in the dress up. We are headed there in a few weeks and I (Sean) plan to take part in a couple of themes.

[Georgia fun]

I'm quite certain I have put my 2 cents in on this one before but I feel I need to add a bit....as the wife I love for him to dress up and have a great time. Most outfits are over the top and all of mine are chosen by him. As the wife with a husband that would love for me to wear the smallest, skimpiest thing he can find I can say that I have to have a strong drink or two before I head out in my dinner attire as well as when I change for costume....what I'm trying to get at is as the wife I also get the nervous jitters about my attire for things so again, a strong drink or two and I'm good. Same could be said for the men a little nervous about dressing up....have a couple drinks and you will get those big balls