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Bi-sexual females

Postby D&Jhavingfun » Sun Apr 12, 2015 11:48 am

Newbie and I have a question about bi-sexual females at DP. I happen to be bi myself and the biggest draw for me is this aspect of the lifestyle and what attracted us to playing in the first place. At home f/f play is almost always expected and we rarely encounter women that aren't. However it seems, from several of the posts that I've read, at DP it seems more to focus on M/F interaction and swapping partners. We aren't full swap but do enjoy soft between the sexes.

What is your opinion on the "bi-sexual" female demographic at DP? I do realize that changes from week to week but I'm speaking in general terms.

Thanks!
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby beagirl » Sun Apr 12, 2015 7:29 pm

RavishNRelease wrote:Newbie and I have a question about bi-sexual females at DP. I happen to be bi myself and the biggest draw for me is this aspect of the lifestyle and what attracted us to playing in the first place. At home f/f play is almost always expected and we rarely encounter women that aren't. However it seems, from several of the posts that I've read, at DP it seems more to focus on M/F interaction and swapping partners. We aren't full swap but do enjoy soft between the sexes.

What is your opinion on the "bi-sexual" female demographic at DP? I do realize that changes from week to week but I'm speaking in general terms.

Thanks!



You must have read my trip report - and I too have your same experience - All the fun for us started with FF first a year ago. I am interested in others opinions on this subject and in the mean time - we are thinking about going back in August for women's playroom month. You should consider that also! Sounds awesome!
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby normancouple » Mon Apr 13, 2015 12:45 pm

I love to watch my hot wife with another hot woman! This will be our 3rd visit, my wife is model hot, every time women have approached my wife. Usually it doesn't go too far. Sometimes it does! I encourage it and everyone enjoys watching. Pearl is great for everyone. No one will be offended if you ask. You might get an occasional no, but I would say rarely.
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby gntatdesire » Mon Apr 13, 2015 1:01 pm

beagirl wrote: You must have read my trip report - and I too have your same experience - All the fun for us started with FF first a year ago. I am interested in others opinions on this subject and in the mean time - we are thinking about going back in August for women's playroom month. You should consider that also! Sounds awesome!


What is the "women's playroom month" you speak of? Part of the Wild & Sexy promo, where females can come as a pair or part of a threesome?

To the OP...as stated, every week can bring a different percentage...but as most know, where there is LS couples, there will be bi-females! Including this one :D
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby beagirl » Mon Apr 13, 2015 3:28 pm

Yes there is a post called "Girls on Playroom" under the "ask desire reps" forum. Check it out on the DP website also in August.
Looks fun if it works!
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby Twohere4some » Tue Apr 14, 2015 7:11 am

RavishNRelease wrote:Newbie and I have a question about bi-sexual females at DP. I happen to be bi myself and the biggest draw for me is this aspect of the lifestyle and what attracted us to playing in the first place. At home f/f play is almost always expected and we rarely encounter women that aren't. However it seems, from several of the posts that I've read, at DP it seems more to focus on M/F interaction and swapping partners. We aren't full swap but do enjoy soft between the sexes.

What is your opinion on the "bi-sexual" female demographic at DP? I do realize that changes from week to week but I'm speaking in general terms.

Thanks!


Have not been to DP yet but assume it is similar to DRM. We are very similar as to what we enjoy and why we started in the lifestyle. While I can't say they were a majority, there were a number of other women of similar interests. Hot tub and disco were the best places to find a friend! :D
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby Tocute » Tue Apr 14, 2015 8:00 am

RavishNRelease wrote:Newbie and I have a question about bi-sexual females at DP. I happen to be bi myself and the biggest draw for me is this aspect of the lifestyle and what attracted us to playing in the first place. At home f/f play is almost always expected and we rarely encounter women that aren't. However it seems, from several of the posts that I've read, at DP it seems more to focus on M/F interaction and swapping partners. We aren't full swap but do enjoy soft between the sexes.

What is your opinion on the "bi-sexual" female demographic at DP? I do realize that changes from week to week but I'm speaking in general terms.

Thanks!


Why would anybody care if its F/F are M/M what you do is your business.
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby youme69 » Tue Apr 14, 2015 11:25 am

Bi females is probably the most common play you see all over the resort, no one seems to mind and my wife is usually in the middle of it! We did have at Cabo one time some pure naturalist complain to management that women were kissing in the pool and wanted it stopped. Management never said a word that we know of, and the kissing didn't stop.
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby miranda2 » Tue Apr 14, 2015 1:02 pm

Does girl/girl kissing and touching assume bisexuality? Or is it merely fun and games and something that 'just happens in the moment' at Desire resorts?
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby TandD » Tue Apr 14, 2015 3:36 pm

Right. I thought the OP was asking about bi women in swapping scenarios and wasn't seeing much at DP. If we are talking about just general girl-girl playing, if you can't see that, you just aint opening your eyes!
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby SunBeachFun » Tue Apr 14, 2015 4:27 pm

miranda2 wrote:Does girl/girl kissing and touching assume bisexuality? Or is it merely fun and games and something that 'just happens in the moment' at Desire resorts?


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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby SJCrazy » Thu Apr 16, 2015 12:38 pm

miranda2 wrote:Does girl/girl kissing and touching assume bisexuality? Or is it merely fun and games and something that 'just happens in the moment' at Desire resorts?


A very nebulous question, and when people start discussing it they usually get worked up over it! It's one of those agree-to-disagree issues. Best not to ask such hard questions IMO :D
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby J&K » Fri Apr 17, 2015 3:50 pm

miranda2 wrote:Does girl/girl kissing and touching assume bisexuality? Or is it merely fun and games and something that 'just happens in the moment' at Desire resorts?


We will bite and give our OPINION. So there is a lot of fun and games, kissing and touching, where it is just happening to enhance the party, for others enjoyment or for husbands enjoyment. Nothing wrong with that. To each there own.

And then there is also try bisexuality where the ladies are doing the kissing, touching and so on due to an attraction, mostly for themselves and sure if it is entertaining hubby or others then why not :)

It is hard to generalize when every week is different but having been to desire twice now and ttr 6 or so times we find much more of the doing it for fun versus the try bisexuality, which is fine. On some vacations we don't play at all and just with each other. On a lifestyle site it is clearly stated interests and it is much easier to find the right true bisexual lady match, in our experience.

Again, just an opinion based on our small sample size. Nothing wrong with either. Both are simply WONDERFUL :D
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby Twohere4some » Sat Apr 18, 2015 7:26 am

Back to the original post of are there other women looking to play or explore with another woman but stay soft swap as far as their partners go. Believe the answer is YES. Don't think it maters if they say they are Straight, Bi, exploring, curious, etc. Labels do more to limit possibilities than to expand them!
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Re: Bi-sexual females

Postby miranda2 » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:21 am

SJCrazy wrote:
miranda2 wrote:Does girl/girl kissing and touching assume bisexuality? Or is it merely fun and games and something that 'just happens in the moment' at Desire resorts?


A very nebulous question, and when people start discussing it they usually get worked up over it! It's one of those agree-to-disagree issues. Best not to ask such hard questions IMO :D



I was just throwing that out there in a light-hearted way to see what responses I might get. No need for any in-depth and/or philosophical answers,nor any need to 'label' it - but I'm glad you included the word 'hard' in your response, SJCrazy. :lol: :D :wink:

Either way, things that can happen 'in the moment' at Desire can sure be fun. :wink:
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